Who you really are lies somewhere between who you think you are, who you feel you are, who you believe you are, and who you wouldn't even in your wildest dreams imagine you are.
Normal people tend to lock themselves into little pieces of their selves and cling to these limitations because to do otherwise is too frightening. A psychic doesn't have that kind of luxury, and has to cultivate his or her 'self' on all levels he or she is able to.
Thoughts give your psychic self structure, emotions give motions, beliefs give purpose, and the unknown aspects of your self give you the freedom to choose and explore. The more you embrace of yourself and the more you get to know yourself, the more able and powerful you will become - not only as a psychic but in all avenues of life.
Know thy psychic self! Let that knowledge change according to your wishes and never stop learning.